
2025 Bridal Shower Guide
How to Plan the Perfect Bridal Shower: A Step-by-Step Guide
Planning a bridal shower is an exciting and meaningful task, but it can also feel overwhelming if you’re unsure where to start. Whether you're the maid of honor, a family member, or a close friend, this guide will walk you through everything you need to plan a flawless and unforgettable bridal shower.
Step 1: Set the Date and Budget
The first step in planning a bridal shower is selecting a date that works best for the bride and key guests. Traditionally, bridal showers are held one to three months before the wedding, but the timing can be flexible. Once the date is chosen, establish a budget that covers the venue, food, decor, invitations, and entertainment.
Step 2: Choose a Theme
A theme can set the tone for the entire event and make planning easier. Consider the bride’s personality and preferences when selecting a theme. Some popular bridal shower themes include:
Boho Chic – Earthy tones, macrame decor, and floral arrangements.
Tea Party – Elegant table settings, tea sandwiches, and vintage china.
Parisian Romance – Soft pastel colors, French pastries, and Eiffel Tower decorations.
Garden Party – Outdoor setting with fresh flowers and rustic charm.
Glamorous Affair – Gold accents, champagne towers, and a touch of sparkle.
Step 3: Select a Venue
The venue sets the ambiance for the event. Choose a location that aligns with the theme and comfortably accommodates guests. Some options include:
A dedicated event venue (like ours!) for a stress-free and beautifully decorated experience.
Step 4: Send Invitations
Once the date, theme, and venue are set, send out invitations four to six weeks in advance. Invitations can be digital (email, e-vites) or traditional printed cards. Be sure to include:
Date, time, and location
RSVP details
Gift registry information (if applicable)
Dress code (if there’s a theme)
Step 5: Plan the Menu
The menu should reflect the theme and time of day. Some ideas include:
Brunch Shower: Mimosas, pastries, fruit platters, quiche.
Afternoon Tea: Finger sandwiches, scones, petit fours.
Casual Luncheon: Salads, sliders, charcuterie boards.
Elegant Dinner: Three-course meal with wine pairings.
Step 6: Organize Fun Games & Activities
Bridal shower games and activities keep guests entertained and create lasting memories. Some fun ideas include:
Bridal Bingo: Guests mark off gifts as they are opened.
How Well Do You Know the Bride? A quiz about the bride’s favorite things.
Advice for the Bride: Guests write down marriage advice.
Photo Booth: A decorated area with props for pictures.
Step 7: Decorate the Space
Decor should match the theme and create a warm, festive atmosphere. Consider:
Fresh flowers and greenery
Personalized banners and signs
Elegant table settings with candles and centerpieces
A beautifully styled dessert table
Step 8: Prepare Party Favors
Send guests home with a small token of appreciation. Some popular bridal shower favors include:
Mini candles or personalized soap
Customized cookies or chocolates
Succulents or mini plants
Monogrammed tote bags or wine glasses
Step 9: Capture the Moments
Hiring a photographer or setting up a DIY photo station ensures that all the special moments are documented. Encourage guests to take photos and share them using a unique hashtag for the event.
Step 10: Enjoy & Celebrate the Bride!
After all the planning, it’s time to enjoy the celebration. Relax, have fun, and make the bride feel extra special on her big day!
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